You too nice your dating partner
They included confusion, anger, sorrow, self-doubt, among a grand list of other things.
People who typically have a secret crush ache at the fact that they can’t get out of the friend zone (if they’re even that close).
Some people have different versions of being happy, and trying to conform to each aspect of it is easier said than done.
Two burning questions still remain: Does the nice guy/girl always finish last?
What they like is our pleasing persona and not the whole of who we are, with our light and dark aspects; our nice and not so nice parts.
They cannot understand why their good behavior doesn't lead to love and respect. I gave lovers everything and got no gratitude for it.
After all, we're all "told" that is how it is supposed to work. I did the "good" boyfriend and husband thing..it all fell apart.
Bring someone flowers or cook them dinner and they love you forever... I learned firsthand that such nice behavior didn't work. The first step to seeing this clearly is to temporarily put aside any frustration and bitterness.
Some would say it’s the worst feeling in the world, but I beg to differ.
In fact, I believe that being in the prime position, and then being demoted is far worse than being stuck in some petty friend zone.